Cyber Safety for Families with Joanna and Jodie on 103.9FM The Fish Family Morning Show
Mobile connectivity use is difficult to regulate because it can be very addictive. Brain science tells us that the interaction with the device has the same effect on the brain as a drug because it stimulates the same reward system of the brain, dopamine. A new study finds that heavy use of the internet by teens may create a risk of higher blood pressure. According to the article, 14 hours per week of internet use (devices and computers) resulted in higher blood pressure. This finding reinforces a growing body of research that connects heavy internet use with other diseases including depression, anxiety, obesity and social isolation.
..”I recommend to parents they limit their children’s’ time at home on the Internet. I think two hours a day, five days a week is good rule of thumb.” Andrea Cassidy-Bushrow, PhD, Henry Ford Dept of Health
Talking points about teen screen-time moderation
- Managing screen time is the responsible, “adult thing” to do. Ask your teen to do their own self assessment of the time they spend using cyber technology for socializing and other tasks, such as homework. And more importantly, let your teen know that you are going to go through the same process and come up with your own resolution to improve your attention management. This is a way to show solidarity and encourage your teen.
- Your attention is your power. You have to decide that you are in charge of how and when you give your attention to something, be it to people, media or tasks. Based upon their own self assessment of time and attention with the device, ask your teen to give themselves a grade for attention management relative to meeting their personal objectives (grades, and other goals). Is the time with the device causing them to go to bed later and lose sleep? Are their grades as good as they could be? Is there more they could get accomplished if they rearranged their priorities?
- Think about being purpose-driven. If the activity with the device is not contributing to accomplishing a task or, more importantly, if it is distracting you from taking care of other responsibilities, then you probably need to set a limit for yourself. Offer to be an accountability buddy, to help them stick to their new commitment for managing their time texting or on social media.
- Suggest establishing a digital sunset. This is a time in the evening when the devices, in particular social media, are turned off. Let your friends know when you will no longer be responding to texts.
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Joanna Jullien is an author, educator and speaker on strengthening the parent-child relationship in a cyber powered world. She is a mother of two grown sons, the author of The Authority In Me: The Power of Family Life in the Network Culture, produces The Sacramento Cyber Safety Examiner column on Examiner.com, and is the CyberParenting advisor on The Fish 103.9FM. Her new book, A Google World in the Garden of Eden: Five Family-Safe Strategies for Texting and Social Media is now available for PC and all eReader formats including Kindle, Nook, iPad
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