What every parent needs to know about privacy & streaming music on-line

Saturday, August 22nd, 2015

My two cents

Streaming music cartoon(This is a reprint from my Sacramento Cyber Safety Examiner column on Examiner.com)

A recent Mashable article features policy changes of the steaming music service app, Spotify, that involve accessing personal data on the user’s smartphone and social media accounts. Like many free service apps, the app developer attracts users with the promise of a personalized, hassle-free experience, and then pursues a more aggressive, systemic mining of personal data in order to grow advertising revenue.

The backlash to Spotify’s recent policy change was immediate as users objected to the company’s intent to pursue personal data in the devices and social media apps (friend contacts, and conversations, etc.). Even though the policy may require getting the user’s permission, there is a perceived trust issue.

The problem with registering with free on-line services from a personal security standpoint is that the advertising programs being developed are increasingly intrusive. With access to personal data they take hints (or keywords) from conversations on Instagram, Facebook or Twitter, and then insert ads into the media stream for your account that correspond according to your most recent on-line experiences and personal profile. The other significant problem is inappropriate content for young users because these apps are adult swim, meaning that explicit content is readily accessible. So you will want to be able to manage to content that is age-appropriate. For more details about children and streaming music, Common Sense Media offers a good overview.

Indeed the buyer must be aware of the things you are giving up or agreeing to when you decide to download an app and register personal information to use it. The cost is more than money. When you accept “free use” of an app, you are trading on trust, which is worth more than money.

Cyber safety conversation tips about use of apps

  • Explain to your child that private is important because it presumes a measure of control over who gets see or know about your personal stuff, including your sex, age, image, address, where you go to school, who your friends are, your feelings and preferences.
  • Furthermore trust among people and with apps is always verifiable. Not everybody is trustworthy or has your best interest at heart, and your job as the parent is to monitor your child’s cyber communications, content and apps so you can train them how not to give up too much personal information and attention. Free service providers are seeking to gain your attention and trust so they can earn money by presenting ads to you in ways that are very personal – like an advertiser responding to an on-line conversation about someone’s purchase of a style of shoe or video game whether or not you are interested in making a new purchase.
  • Establish a “Family-Approved-App-List” wherein every individual recognizes that downloading apps is not a trivial thing. Before downloading any app, especially “free ones”, it must be discussed and approved. The aim of the approval process is to maintain open dialogue about the things that interest your child and provide guidance on how to evaluate the personal exposure involved in agreeing to the terms of use.


As the Sacramento Cyber Safety Examiner, my personal mission is to educate and inspire parents from all walks of life and social settings to realize their inherent authority to govern the home and educate the child about their own power; the personal power that comes from the spiritual resilience of your chosen faithAnd so I write for Examiner.com to express the passion of my mother heart to a diverse audience.

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Joanna Jullien (Photo: Christi Benz)

Joanna Jullien
(Photo: Christi Benz)

Joanna Jullien is an author, educator and speaker on strengthening the parent-child relationship in a cyber powered world. She is a mother of two grown sons, the author of The Authority In Me: The Power of Family Life in the Network Culture, produces The Sacramento Cyber Safety Examiner column on Examiner.com, and is the CyberParenting advisor on The Fish 103.9FM. Her new book, A Google World in the Garden of Eden: Five Family-Safe Strategies for Texting and Social Media is now available for PC and all eReader formats including Kindle, Nook, iPad.

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About Joanna Jullien

Joanna Jullien

Joanna (jullien@surewest.net) and her husband have raised two sons in Roseville, CA. She has a degree from U.C. Berkeley in Social Anthropology (corporate culture). Her honors thesis was awarded the Kroeber Prize and funding from National Science Foundation grant. Joanna writes to help parents with the modern-day leadership challenges of raising children. She is a contributing writer for The Granite Bay View, the Press Tribune, the Sacramento Examiner, and editor of Banana Moments.