Archive for the 'God’s love' Category
Saturday, December 12th, 2015
A recent article by Naomi Schaefer Riley in the New York Post features the lack of parental confidence in a child’s ability to be responsible for their own security as a type of schizophrenia that looks something like this: little girls are wearing sexy Halloween costumes while college students are calling parents daily to make basic decisions about class courses and campus life. The article points to an “amorphous fear” of a culture that is not geared toward protecting children.
Posted in Banana Moments Monthly Round Up, Bullying, Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Cyber Safety, Cyberbullying, Discipline, Faith, Family, God's love, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parent-child relationship, Parental Authority, Parental control, Parenting, Sex and sexual exploitation, Social Media, Substance Abuse & Addiction, Teenagers, Texting, Wisdom | Comments Off on Hopeless in America: Why parents are afraid to let kids grow up
Monday, November 23rd, 2015
The concerns of this study are rooted in a simple truth: “When you stand for nothing, you fall for anything” (Alexander Hamilton).
Posted in Bullying, Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Cyber Safety, Depression, Faith, Family, God's love, Internet Safety, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parent-child communication, Parental control, Parenting, Sex and sexual exploitation, Sexting, Social Media, Substance Abuse & Addiction, Teenagers, The Fish 103.9FM Cyber Tues, Wisdom | Comments Off on 3 Cyber threats your child can be trained to avoid
Monday, November 2nd, 2015
According to a recent report from Aleteia, at the fall annual assembly of U.S. Catholic Bishops in Baltimore, scheduled for November 16-19, there will be a vote to issue a general statement about pornography as a “pastoral crisis”. The purpose of this general statement is to educate clergy, parents and young people about this crisis for families and society.
Posted in addiction, Cyber Safety, Faith, Family, God's love, Internet porn, Internet Safety, Mobile Phone Use and Children, My two cents, Parenting, Privacy, Relationship, Sex and sexual exploitation, Sexting, Social Media, Teenagers, Texting | Comments Off on Tips for family conversations about internet porn and sex
Tuesday, October 27th, 2015
After ten years of fieldwork devoted to understanding what it means to grow up in a cyber-powered world and the new demands on parents, it is clear that the new demands on parents are as follows:
Posted in Anxiety, Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Children's Health & Mental Health, Cyber Safety, Faith, God's love, Internet Safety, Mobile Phone Use and Children, My two cents, Parental control, Parenting, Relationship, Sex and sexual exploitation, Sexting, Social Media, Teenagers, Texting, Wisdom | Comments Off on The most critical life skill to teach your tech-savvy teen: Think for yourself
Tuesday, October 6th, 2015
Over the past decade, conversations with and press releases from law enforcement have given me a very powerful overview of how on-line predator’s snare youth with fear and fakery, and what parents can do to help thwart their evil schemes. Below are some insights to consider when parenting children to learn how to safely navigate the social network.
Posted in Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Cyber Safety, Faith, Family, God's love, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parent-child relationship, Parental control, Parenting, Sex and sexual exploitation, Social Media, Teenagers, Wisdom | Comments Off on How to thwart the schemes of on-line predators
Sunday, September 20th, 2015
Last Thursday Dr. Joyce Mikal-Flynn, founder of MetaHab trauma and injury recovery training center in Sacramento, spoke to therapists and school counselors at Sierra Vista Hospital about the value of trauma as an event or experience that offers enormous potential to build resilience. A near death survivor herself, Mikal-Flynn has developed a program to guide therapists in the treatment of people who have survived trauma so they can recover and become stronger than before the event. Her insights are incredibly relevant for the challenges we and our youth experience navigating the social network – which can be an incredibly exhilarating and a potentially hostile experience inflicting trauma such as cyberbullying and feelings of isolation and inadequacy.
Posted in Anxiety, Children's Health & Mental Health, Children's mental health, Cyber Safety, Cyberbullying, Faith, God's love, Mobile Phone Use and Children, My two cents, Parent-child communication, Parent-child relationship, Parental control, Parenting, Wisdom | Comments Off on Why your cyber-powered child needs you to have faith
Monday, September 7th, 2015
As a mom of two grown sons, I left the corporate world in 2004 when my youngest son hit middle school to better understand what it means to grow up in a cyber-powered world and the new demands on parents. My mother heart wanted to know how we are supposed to provide protective cover for youth who have literally have …
Posted in addiction, Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Cyber Safety, Faith, God's love, Internet Safety, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parent-child communication, Parental control, Privacy, Sex and sexual exploitation, Sexting, Social Media, Substance Abuse & Addiction, Teenagers, Texting, The Fish 103.9FM Cyber Tues, Wisdom | Comments Off on Kids using secret apps to hide photos & texts: Tips for parents
Thursday, September 3rd, 2015
A recent article by Medical Press released new survey data about the health concerns for youth, featuring sexting and internet safety at the top of the list along with childhood obesity. According to the report, the level of concern about internet safety and sexting ranks higher than youth smoking. The impact of cyber technology on the health and well being of our young “really dominates the story this year,” the report said.
Posted in Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Children's Health & Mental Health, Children's mental health, Cyber Safety, Depression, Faith, Family, God's love, Internet Safety, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parent-child relationship, Parental control, Parenting, Sex and sexual exploitation, Sexting, Social Media, Wisdom | Comments Off on Sexting & internet safety rank in top 10 list of child medical concerns
Monday, August 24th, 2015
Back-to-school is a time of new experiences and new peer groups, on and off-line. Kids will be exposed to new apps and on-line hangouts, where there is always the risk of bad actors taking advantage of vulnerable youth. And banning kids from mobile connectivity and social media is not going to keep them safe, because they can keep their access a secret – making them even more vulnerable.
There will be drama. It is a part of growing up. But certain apps truly stir drama into cyberbully ...
Posted in Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Children Lying, Cyber Safety, Faith, God's love, Internet Social Networks, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parent-child communication, Parental control, Parenting, Sexting, Social Media, The Fish 103.9FM Cyber Tues, Wisdom | Comments Off on Back-to-School: How to identify and talk about new digital hangouts
Monday, August 10th, 2015
The transition struggles youth experience graduating into middle school, high school and college in the hyper-connected world amplify any confusion or self doubt a person might have. The most important thing a parent can do for a child going through the struggles of life's transitions is to express the spiritual wisdom of their chosen faith.
Posted in Anxiety, Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Children's Health & Mental Health, Faith, God's love, Mobile Phone Use and Children, My two cents, Parent-child communication, Parent-child relationship, Parental Authority, Parental control, Relationship, Substance Abuse & Addiction | Comments Off on Respond to your child’s school transition struggles by agreeing with God’s promises, not your fears