Greetings friends!
On April 9 we kicked off the One Million Fresh Start Families by 2020 campaign with a new brand and website: Core Connectivity – A Foundation to Empower Families. Banana Moments Foundation will continue to serve as the 501-c-3 parent corporation for this initiative.
Your participation is easy and makes a difference. Go to $1 Quick Start to a Fresh Start and enroll in this campaign by purchasing the 10-minute video for one dollar. Although we will keep our listing of past original content here, our blog posts and updates will now be served through the Core Connectivity website.
December 5th, 2016
By my faith I understand patience to be one of the most kind and empowering ways to grow in love and cast out fear.
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Posted in Anxiety, Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Children's Health & Mental Health, Cyber Safety, Faith, Family, God's love, My two cents, Parental control, Parenting, Wisdom | Comments Off on On the value of patience in the family
September 24th, 2016
Learning how to love and be loved is like archery lessons that teach us how to cast out fear: aim for the bulls-eye, where the love of God rests and there is peace. Hopefully we are all learning how to become better versions of ourselves, holding one accountable with a mercy and a heart full of hope and faith that the grace of God carries us forward closer to Him when we seek His face.
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Posted in Anxiety, Bullying, Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Children's Health & Mental Health, Cyber Safety, Faith, God's love, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parent-child relationship, Parental Authority, Parental control, Parenting, Sexting, Social Media, Substance Abuse & Addiction | Comments Off on On forming a united front in the family
September 16th, 2016
Children receive a lot of input about what it will take to succeed and be happy. How can we communicate the truth that will help them realize their own potential?
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Posted in addiction, Anxiety, Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Children's Health & Mental Health, Cyber Safety, Faith, Family, Happiness, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parent-child communication, Parental control, Parenting, Relationship, Social Media, Substance Abuse & Addiction, Substance abuse prevention, Teen Drinking, Teen drug addiction, Teen Drug Use, Texting, Wisdom | Comments Off on On what it means to succeed and be happy
August 27th, 2016
So while I understand people are not receptive to religious dogma, and I am not a theologian, the freedom to worship, or not worship God is central to this civil liberty of our free society. It is freedom of religion, not freedom from religion that makes individual liberty possible. (See Dale Carnegie’s book, How to Stop Worrying and Start Living, 1944). God does not make us worship him. It is a choice granted by Him. This free will also gives us and our children the realization that we can think for ourselves and improve our own lots (one family, neighborhood, and community at a time) because God’s grace is endless and His mercy is abundant for those who fix their minds on even just one mustard seed of faith.
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Posted in Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Children's Health & Mental Health, Cyber Safety, Faith, Family, Financial literacy, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parental control, Parenting, Social Media, Substance Abuse & Addiction, Texting, Wisdom | Comments Off on Teaching tech-savvy youth about who is in control
August 25th, 2016
...Families are formed on purpose, for a purpose: to defend love in the face of evil in the world by educating one another through Wisdom, not by worldly knowledge and controlling motives...
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Posted in Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Children's Health & Mental Health, Cyber Safety, Entitlement, Faith, Family, God's love, Mobile Phone Use and Children, My two cents, Parental control, Parenting, Relationship, Social Media, Wisdom | Comments Off on How families are made on purpose, for a purpose
August 24th, 2016
I have come to truly appreciate the trust God has placed in humanity, that he would grant us the capacity to procreate – to bear children and be responsible for their upbringing and care. Through my motherhood journey, I have learned that we are all imperfect parents with imperfect children, and we have the power to make home a safe place to learn how to become better versions of ourselves. To become trustworthy citizens at …
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Posted in Cyber Safety, Faith, Family, God's love, Parent-child relationship, Parental control, Parenting, Social Media, Texting | Comments Off on On becoming a better version of myself as a mother
August 23rd, 2016
Let this declaration of my choice to believe and walk according to the Word of God resonate in every nook and cranny of my heart and mind, body and soul; in my house, and in every family relationship so that the enemy realizes that I know and You, Jesus, witness that I know, that he who is in the world has no power of what You God have already given me before I was born …
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Posted in Cyber Safety, Faith, Family, God's love, Mobile Phone Use and Children, My two cents, Parent-child communication, Parental Authority, Parental control, Parenting, Social Media, Texting | Comments Off on Reclaiming family in the social network
August 22nd, 2016
Thank you God that it is by your grace and your faith we can choose to become citizens of heaven now and overcome all undue influences in the world with holy confidence. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Faith is a touchy subject, so we don’t talk about what we believe about God and personal power. And yet we know when you stand for nothing, you fall for anything – especially in the social network.
1 Kings …
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Posted in Children & Teens Problems & Pitfalls, Cyber Safety, Faith, Family, Mobile Phone Use and Children, My two cents, Parental control, Parenting, Social Media, Wisdom | Comments Off on Defending love in the social network
August 20th, 2016

My faith informs me that to become holy is to care about what God cares about first and foremost and then to not allow the priorities of the world influence my desires because then I can easily deceive myself that what I want is what God wants. God wants every human being to be a part of His Holy Family, which is the Kingdom of heaven forged by a spirit of adoption through faith. In …
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Posted in Cyber Safety, Faith, Family, Mobile Phone Use and Children, Parent-child relationship, Parental control, Wisdom | Comments Off on Making a family in the social network
August 18th, 2016
So by my faith I know that the purpose and power of women in marriages, families and communities, as mothers, daughters, sisters and wives, is to pray for our men so as to fully communicate the love of God expressed in Romans 8:38-39, and by faith equip their hearts and minds with abundant grace, as fathers, husbands, sons and brothers. This can only be accomplished when I ask for divine guidance in responding to the …
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Posted in Abuse & Violence, addiction, Boundaries, Children's Health & Mental Health, Faith, Family, fatherhood, God's love, My two cents, Parent-child communication, Parent-child relationship, Parental control, Parenting, Sex and sexual exploitation, Substance Abuse & Addiction | Comments Off on For the love of fathers, husbands, sons and brothers