Archive for May, 2012

Teach your child to rule their cyber world

Tuesday, May 29th, 2012

…Relating with your child about the house rules for texting, surfing and social media is mission critical. Here’s how to help your child understand what it means to defend individual liberty…

Off-line safety zone to confront the pain: Building resiliency to addiction

Tuesday, May 22nd, 2012

This article was originally published in the 2012 Spring Edition of Banana Moments: Family Business Quarterly – featuring youth issues and resiliency.

Barry Lessin works with youth and families struggling with addiction and he wants parents to understand that addiction happens when we are overwhelmed with an anxiety response to stress…

In today’s cyber-powered world, there are more stressors for children at earlier ages from managing your image in social media (including dealing with cyberbullying) …

How to instill social network confidence in your child

Monday, May 21st, 2012

CyberParentingTopics featured on TheFish103.9FM Tuesday mornings

  •  1.     Why is confidence so important in the network?

Confidence is defined as being certain of what to do in most situations.

It is the opposite of being insecure.

Confidence is important because our children are being challenged by so much uncertainty and untruth in their on-line worlds.

When children are confident, they involve parents in appropriate ways (see example 1) when they encounter a bad situation involving cyber …

Youth suicide, resiliency and relating in the ‘net’

Saturday, May 19th, 2012

This is the introduction to the 2012 Spring edition of Banana Moments: Family Business Quarterly. Subscribers look for PDF attachment in your email. To receive the PDF with articles, subscribe.

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Greetings,

For this Spring 2012 edition of Banana Moments: Family Business Quarterly I chose to feature the book, What Color Is Your Parachute? 2012: A Practical Manual for Job-Hunters and Career-Changers by Richard Bolles because it offers very hands-on ways to discover our …

Help children recognize lies and discern truth in the network culture

Sunday, May 13th, 2012

The beliefs to which our children are exposed tell them they are neither important, nor good enough unless they lower standards for personal security and surrender their inherent authority in the name of “freedom”…

Is MomEnough Time cover controversy really about breastfeeding?

Saturday, May 12th, 2012

The new Time cover features a photo of a mother nursing her four year old son (he’s standing on a chair to reach her breast).  A cyber-powered controversy ensued and today the mother on the cover speaks out to defend herself.

Motherhood is as much an extremely personal experience, as it is a nurturing/socialization role shared by many. When we start to judge and measure  our motherhood decisions (stay at home, breast feeding, discipline/leadership, …

Hero logic and anti-bullying

Monday, May 7th, 2012

Cyberbullying is one of the prevailing concerns of parents and what most people do not realize is that bullying requires a victim mentality as every bully will tell you why they are offended by the target and why she deserves it.

Who will the digital natives follow? Parental authority in the digital age

Wednesday, May 2nd, 2012

…Today, kids believe they can Google anything and everything they need to know, and they are empowered by cyber connectivity to meet and exchange ideas and information without the stewardship of adults….

About Joanna Jullien

Joanna Jullien

Joanna (jullien@surewest.net) and her husband have raised two sons in Roseville, CA. She has a degree from U.C. Berkeley in Social Anthropology (corporate culture). Her honors thesis was awarded the Kroeber Prize and funding from National Science Foundation grant. Joanna writes to help parents with the modern-day leadership challenges of raising children. She is a contributing writer for The Granite Bay View, the Press Tribune, the Sacramento Examiner, and editor of Banana Moments.

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